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A Parenting Agreement is a written document, usually entered
into between separated parents, which records the arrangements for looking
after a child/children of the relationship.
Parenting Agreements are useful documents to have as it works as a record of what has been agreed on between the parents should there be any dispute or misunderstanding about the arrangements in the future.
Parenting Agreements usually include the following:
·Arrangements for usual day-to-day care and contact of the child/children
·Changeover and travel arrangements including which parent will transport the child/children to the changeover location or who is responsible to collect the child/children from school.
·Arrangements during the school holidays and special occasions such as birthday’s, Mother’s and Father’s Day.
Parenting Agreements can also include other matters agreed to such as where the child/children are to go to school, transportation arrangements, the parent’s preferred mode of communication (particularly in the event of an emergency arising relating to the child/children and important guardianship matters which both parents are obliged to consult about regarding education, health, religion or any other matters of importance regarding the child/children.
What is the difference between a Parenting Agreement and a Parenting Order?
The main difference is that a Parenting Order is a Court Order whereas a Parenting Agreement is an agreement recording the parties arrangements. A Parenting Order is legally binding and the terms can be enforced with the Court’s assistance if a term of the Order is breached. A person looking to enforce the terms of any Parenting Agreement would first need to apply to the Family Court to be granted a Parenting Order before any enforcement can take place.
Parents who have a Parenting Agreement, whether oral or in writing can jointly ask the Family Court to make a Parenting Order reflecting the terms of their agreement. A Family Court Judge will look at the Parenting Agreement to confirm the terms are in the best interests and welfare of the child/children before making any Parenting Order.
Although a Parenting Agreement does not have the same legal status as a Parenting Order, it is still a good idea for any Agreement as to care arrangements to be recorded in writing to avoid any later confusion. A Parenting Agreement may also be used in any later Court proceedings as verification of what arrangements were occurring for the child/children.
Please feel free to contact our Ward Adams Bryan-Lamb team should you require any legal advice in getting a Parenting Agreement in place with your ex-partner, or if you seek assistance in applying to the Family Court for a Parenting Order.